SELF REFLECTION

Reflections on Solitude

February 12, 20248 min read

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What I learned about myself during three months of living alone by the sea...

Christina

Christina

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Born along the Malabar Coast, Christina weaves stories that bridge ancient traditions with contemporary life.

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Reflections on Solitude
SELF REFLECTION

Alone with the endless sea, I discovered that solitude is not emptiness but a different kind of fullness.

Reflections on Solitude

Alone with the endless sea, I discovered that solitude is not emptiness but a different kind of fullness.

Three months by myself in a cottage by the sea taught me that loneliness and solitude are entirely different countries. Loneliness is wanting company and not having it. Solitude is choosing your own company and finding it sufficient.

The first week was the hardest. Without the constant noise of other people's needs, opinions, and presence, I was left with only my own thoughts—and I realized how little time I usually spent with them.

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